We’re being called to address any issues now that will keep us from fully playing our part in co-creating the new world we are rapidly moving into. To do this, you may need to look closely at who/what is truly driving your bus—(directing your life and controlling your happiness). It may be the invisible but powerful 600-pound gorilla in the driver’s seat—taking wrong turns, slamming on the brakes and crashing into things. No matter how hard you try, it seems to take you everywhere but where you want to go.

This rogue, life-limiting gorilla is any pattern, old belief, fear, experience or idea deeply buried in your subconscious and/or energy-body. It’s driving your bus and controlling one or more aspects of your life. It’s in charge of your life or an area of your life and it’s controlling where you go and how you get there, how you act and respond. It’s in the driver’s seat. It’s taking your bus—your life—down dead-ends, over rocky roads and on trips you never consciously intended. These old patterns and beliefs no longer serve your highest good and your purpose.

And you’re not to blame. We all have beliefs from our past that served us as kids or even as adults in certain situations—and they will sabotage our lives now if the energetic charge is great enough. These beliefs are as many as there are people. However, some common ones are: There’s never enough; I’m not good enough; money doesn’t grow on trees; I’ll never be successful; I’m not loveable; only the rich get richer; and on and on. You may be saying, “not me, I don’t believe that stuff.” And maybe you’re right. However—our subconscious (in fact, our entire energy-body) carries everything we have ever heard or felt emotionally since birth and even in utero, until we consciously clear it or neutralize it.

Studies have shown that even in utero and until  about two years of age, a child’s brain is predominately in a Delta brain wave state. This state in an adult is a state of very deep meditation or sleep. It’s the state where growth hormones are produced and a child absorbs everything it hears, sees and feels into its subconscious. It’s learning how to adapt to, live in and survive in the environment it’s born into. From age two until six years old approximately, a child’s predominant brain wave pattern is Theta—the brain wave state of meditation—and it absorbs everything without filters or conscious reasoning. If you heard repeatedly or even once if it was powerful enough that, “you’re stupid,” or “little girls can’t do that,” or you observed panic in your house about lack of money, or you witnessed great disharmony or abuse or one of thousands of other messages that kids receive from parents, teachers, friends and others, even if the intent was good—it’s in your subconscious, and it may be driving your bus. It’s important to know that older children and adults can also take on buried beliefs and emotional energies from traumatic or repetitive negative experiences.

The great news is that once you become aware—you can change things, and actually change your life quite quickly. It’s my belief that we are all being called to clear the powerful energetic charge these deeply held beliefs, patterns and experiences hold over us.  These are the fear-based, limiting, discouraging beliefs and patterns that interfere with our connection to all that is good for us. This negative energy can and does easily negate any positive affirmations.  Like does truly does attract like.  And if your subconscious is putting out the energy signals of lack, limitation, failure, unlovable, and other self-sabotaging vibrations, you can try until the cows come home–and very little will change.

Isn’t it time to boot the gorilla off the bus and hop back into the driver’s seat?

Your life is waiting!

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Our lives will represent the rising of the phoenix if we allow it. Out of the fire and ashes of our crash and burn lives, we are offered a new beginning. And this Grace is offered over and over again. This mythical bird never comes out of its ashes despondent and dejected; it arises with great power and beauty, undamaged and strengthened by the flames of its self-created fire.

We don’t need to gaze upon the ashes of our burnt out dreams with a heavy heart. We are encouraged by the power of this timeless myth to rise up—to be re-birthed— into a new beginning, a new opportunity and sometimes, a whole new life.

If we can stay focused on the Good, we will find It. It is right here with us all the time. It has never left us.

A phoenix experience is the ulitmate change–a “dying” of the old, so the new can be born in and through you.

 Anyone who is even mildly awake can see that we are living in times that are nothing like we’ve ever seen before. If you think differently-you’re asleep.

 We must choose to change with it-to bend and flow and co-create with the change that has arrived and not just from outside forces-but from the deep Inner Self that calls us to become our best-to participate in creating a better world for everyone. No exceptions, No exclusions. No time to waste.

 You were intended to live at this time in the history of the world. You have a part to play in making it better-or making it worse.  Choose better.

 We are being offered the chance of a lifetime-to become the best we can be. The best we are intended to be as individuals, communities and countries in a new era of caring, sharing, compassion, fairness and equality for everyone, in every country. A new respect for our environment and the animals we share the planet with.

 A new interdependence is birthing itself.

 It’s very exciting. If we can look at the chaos and turmoil around us with the knowing that we are re-creating a better world; a better economy based on honesty and fairness instead of runaway greed; a just and compassionate global society; and a cleaner and greener earth for all of us to live on-then it makes it easier to accept that what’s happening is necessary to evolve us into a humanity that will shine so much brighter than our recent past.